Every horror movie has a place where bad things happen. The basement. The abandoned cabin. The dark woods. Some shadowy alternate dimension where everything seems fine until suddenly it isn’t.
Remember in the Netflix series “Stranger Things,” the scary place was called The Upside Down?
Gyms have one, too. Call it The In-Between Space: all those hours and days between one member visit and the next.
This is where a member who worked out Tuesday and planned to come back Thursday gets busy and decides Friday will be fine. Then Friday gets away from him, the weekend fills up, and suddenly he hasn’t worked out in a week.
It’s where another member is discouraged by her progress but stays quiet with her coach. She starts coming less often.
From the gym owner’s perspective, there might be a problem. Yet this is often how you lose members.
Your coaches might deliver an outstanding experience during the few hours a week a member spends in your gym. There are still more than 160 other hours when work, family, fatigue, distractions and changing motivation can interfere with the commitment to exercise.
You can’t control what happens out there in The In-Between Space.
But you can use effective member engagement strategies to maintain the relationship.
Notice When Something Changes
Before you can communicate effectively between visits, you need to know when it might be needed. Attendance is one of the most useful signals you have.
Consider a member who has worked out every Monday, Wednesday and Friday for five months. Missing one Wednesday is probably OK. But if Wednesday turns into Friday and then the following Monday, something might be off.
That’s a more meaningful reason to reach out than blasting the same “We miss you!” message to everyone who hasn’t checked in for a predetermined number of days. A coach who knows the member can send something simple: “Hey, Maria. Haven’t seen you this week and wanted to check in. Hope everything’s OK.”
There’s no sales pitch or lecture about getting back to the gym. The message simply tells Maria that somebody noticed.
Systems such as Naamly can help gyms use check-in data and automated workflows to identify members whose attendance has changed and follow-up. Among the most important member engagement strategies is catching that change early, before an occasional missed workout turns into a new habit of not coming.
Make It Personal Enough to Matter
You’ve probably received a “WE MISS YOU!” email from a retailer or restaurant you haven’t visited lately. You probably didn’t believe for a second that anyone there had actually noticed your absence.
Gyms have an advantage because your staff really does know your members. A message asking Dave how his knee felt after Monday’s workout is different from a generic attendance alert.
So is congratulating him on the weight he added to his squat, wishing him luck on a trip he mentioned or asking how his first 5K went.
These messages take little time, but they tell the member the relationship is real. Good member engagement strategies make use of what your coaches already know about people, like goals, injuries and milestones.
Naamly technology can help, especially when several employees interact with the same member. Keeping client notes and communication history in one place means the relationship doesn’t have to depend entirely on one coach remembering every detail.
Check on Progress Early
The In-Between Space can be especially dangerous when members are disappointed with their results because they don’t always tell you.
Someone who joined hoping to lose 20 pounds might have lost eight and be frustrated. But her coach might note her growing strength and lower body fat percentage.
Check-ins close that gap. They can be informal, such as a coach sending a quick message after a workout. More structured reviews every 60 or 90 days let you get more detailed.
You can learn if someone is bored, discouraged, or frustrated. Those are often solvable problems, provided you hear about them before the member decides the solution is leaving.
That’s why progress conversations belong among your regular member engagement strategies, rather than being reserved for someone who is already at risk of canceling.
Celebrate!
Gyms love the big transformation story, and it’s in a long series of smaller accomplishments – and these give you lots of natural opportunities to communicate between visits.
A first push-up or pull-up deserves recognition, as does a 25th workout, or a month of consistent attendance.
And automation makes it easy to remember birthdays and membership anniversaries.
You might acknowledge those moments with a personal text or email, on social media, or on a bulletin.
If you only reach out when they’ve missed an appointment, or you have a new “up-sell,” members will feel like it’s just transactional.
Some member engagement strategies should make people smile when they see your name in a text or email.
Choose the Right Channel
Texting gets attention, which is precisely why you shouldn’t use it for everything.
· Good times to use texts? Things like appointment reminders, last-minute schedule changes, and timely personal check-ins.
· Email works well for newsletters, educational content, member stories and information that doesn’t require immediate attention.
· Social media and private online groups can reinforce your community and keep members connected to each other and to your
gym.
So, don’t send out every message on every channel. Use them appropriately.
The best member engagement strategies take those preferences into account instead of forcing everyone through the same general sequence.
Automate the Routine, Not the Relationship
It’s hard keeping track of all your contacts manually.
Naamly uses automated workflows and member data to help gyms manage follow-ups, reminders and engagement tracking.
A system can recognize that a regular member’s attendance has dropped, remind someone about an upcoming appointment, or prompt your team to follow up at a particular point in the member journey.
The gym owner still has to decide where automation should stop. If an automated check-in gets a response saying, “Great, I’m just traveling this week,” the system has done its job. If the member says, “Honestly, I’m frustrated and thinking about quitting,” a coach needs to take over.
That division of labor makes automation one of the more practical member engagement strategies for small gyms.
Technology can monitor The In-Between Space and handle predictable communications, while your staff spends its time on conversations that require judgment and an actual relationship.
Decide Who Owns the Follow-Up
Even a great communication plan can fail when everyone on your staff feels vaguely responsible for carrying it out.
Decide who owns different types of communication. Perhaps the coach who works most frequently with a member follows up when attendance changes, while a member-success manager handles scheduled progress reviews and the front desk takes responsibility for appointment reminders.
Establish a few clear triggers as well.
· A new member might get a personal check-in after the first week.
· A significant change in attendance prompts a message from a coach.
· Progress reviews happen every 60 or 90 days.
· If an automated message produces a response indicating a problem, someone knows whose job it is to continue the conversation.
Once those expectations become part of your operation, your member engagement strategies no longer depend on someone happening to remember that they haven’t seen Jim lately.
Know When to Leave People Alone
There’s one more hazard lurking in The In-Between Space: overdoing it.
Members already have overflowing inboxes, constant notifications and dozens of businesses competing for their attention.
Before sending something, consider whether there’s a reason — from the member’s point of view.
Adjust your member engagement strategies so staying connected doesn’t become intrusive.
Don’t Fear the In-Between
In horror movies, you know somebody is in trouble when they wander off alone to the scary place and ominous music starts.
Member drift usually is much quieter.
Attendance becomes less consistent, progress feels slower, work gets busy or motivation dips. The exercise habit weakens, and the member gradually feels less connected to the gym. Eventually enough time passes that coming back seems harder than staying away.
Communication gives you a chance to interrupt all that.
You don’t need constant contact, and every message doesn’t need to sell something.
What matters is relevant contact at the right time: a progress check-in when someone is getting discouraged, a reminder when it’s useful, congratulations when something goes well, or a personal message when a familiar face has disappeared.
Your coaches build relationships with members inside your gym. Strong member engagement strategies extend those relationships into The In-Between Space, with thoughtful communication and smart automation helping you stay connected until the next visit.
And maybe keeping a few members from disappearing there for good.
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